The Divorce Mediation Process
A Clear Path Forward
We know that starting the divorce process can feel overwhelming. That is why we have designed our mediation process to be as clear, calm, and straightforward as possible. Here is what typically happens from the moment you reach out to the moment you have a signed agreement.
1
Start the Conversation
The first step is simply getting in touch. You can contact us by phone or through our website. There is no commitment at this stage. We will listen to your situation, evaluate your case, and answer your initial questions. This is not a formal consultation.
What to expect: A brief, friendly conversation (usually 15-20 minutes) where we learn about your situation and you learn about our approach.
2
Consultation
When we agree mediation may be a viable option for you, we then schedule a consultation where we sit down together (in person or virtual) to understand your situation in more detail. We explain how mediation works, what the timeline looks like, and make sure it is the right fit for you.
What to expect: A thorough, no-pressure meeting where all your questions get answered. You will leave with a clear understanding of the process and the costs involved.
3
Mediation Sessions
This is where the real work happens. In a series of structured sessions, we work through every aspect of your divorce: finances, property division, parenting plans, and any other issues that need resolution.
What to expect: Sessions typically last 2 hours. Most couples need 2-4 sessions total. We move at whatever pace feels right for you, and you always have time between sessions to think things over.
4
Your Agreement
Once all issues are resolved, we draft a comprehensive separation agreement that reflects everything you have agreed upon. We review it together to make sure it is accurate and complete, then guide you through the filing process.
What to expect: A clear, legally sound document that you both helped create.
Be Prepared
What to Bring to Your First Session
You do not need to have everything figured out before you start. But having these items ready can help the process go more smoothly:
- Pay stubs or income documentation
- Bank account information
- Mortgage and debt information
- Retirement account statements (401k, IRA, pension)
- Life insurance information
- A list of questions or concerns you want to address