About Mediation
Understanding the Process
What is divorce mediation?
Mediation is a process where both people sit down with a neutral third party, the mediator, to talk through the terms of their divorce and reach an agreement together, outside of court. It is typically faster, less expensive, and far less stressful than traditional litigation.
How is mediation different from hiring separate attorneys?
In traditional divorce, each person hires their own attorney, and the process often becomes adversarial. In mediation, one neutral mediator helps both people come to an agreement together. You are working as a team rather than as opponents.
Do I still need my own attorney during mediation?
You are always welcome to consult with your own attorney during the process. Many people do, and we encourage it if it gives you added peace of mind. An attorney can review the final agreement before you sign.
What if my spouse does not want to mediate?
That is common, and it is okay. Sometimes one person is more open to it first. We can help you have that conversation, or your spouse is welcome to reach out to us directly to learn more about the process.
Can mediation work if we do not get along?
Yes. You do not need to be on great terms for mediation to work. You just both need to be willing to participate in good faith. Our job as mediator is to manage the conversation and keep things productive, even when emotions run high.
Process & Timeline
How It Works
How long does mediation usually take?
Most mediations wrap up in a few months, which is significantly shorter than going through the courts. The exact timeline depends on your situation, the complexity of your finances, and how quickly you and your spouse can reach agreement on the key issues.
How many sessions will we need?
Most couples need between 3 and 6 sessions. Sessions typically last 1-2 hours each. We schedule them at a pace that works for you, usually every week or two.
What happens if we cannot agree on something?
It is normal to hit sticking points. That is what we are here for. We use proven techniques to help you work through difficult issues. If mediation truly cannot resolve an issue, you still have the option of going to court on just that specific matter.
Cost & Legal Questions
Fees and Logistics
How much does mediation cost compared to litigation?
Mediation is typically a fraction of the cost of traditional litigation. Because you are working together rather than against each other, the process is more efficient and there are fewer legal fees overall. We provide a clear fee schedule during your initial consultation.
Do you offer free consultations?
Yes. We offer a free initial consultation where we discuss your situation, explain the process, and answer all your questions. There is no obligation to proceed after the consultation.
What if we have already filed for divorce?
You can start mediation at any point in the divorce process, even if papers have already been filed. Many couples find that switching to mediation saves them significant time and money compared to continuing with litigation.
Is everything we discuss in mediation confidential?
Yes. Mediation is a confidential process. What is said in mediation stays in mediation and cannot be used as evidence in court. This confidentiality allows both parties to speak openly and honestly.